Partner Support
Support for Partners During and After Pregnancy
At House of Grace, we believe every person is worthy of love, dignity, and support.
We’re here for partners navigating pregnancy — whether the pregnancy is unplanned, continuing, or has ended through abortion or loss.
Our Pregnancy Partner Support provides a safe, understanding space for you to talk, process, and find resources.
Support for Partners Facing Unplanned Pregnancy
An unexpected pregnancy can feel overwhelming for both partners. You may be experiencing a mix of emotions — confusion, fear, anxiety, or hope.
While only your partner can make the final decision about her pregnancy, most women don’t want to face that decision alone. Your support matters.
Here’s how you can help:
Give Emotional Support
Remind your partner that you’re there for her, no matter what. She needs to know she isn’t alone.
Process Together
Talk openly about your feelings, fears, and hopes — without interrupting or judging. If you’re struggling to communicate, our Client Advocates can meet with you together or separately to help facilitate healthy conversations.
Don’t Pressure Her
You may want a particular outcome, but it’s important not to pressure your partner. Focus on being a supportive, caring presence during a difficult time.
If the Pregnancy Continues
Whether your partner chooses parenting or adoption, here’s how you can offer meaningful support:
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Practical Help: Offer to cook, clean, run errands, or help prepare for the baby.
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Attend Appointments: Join her for medical visits and ultrasounds when possible.
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Learn Together: Read about pregnancy and birth so you know what to expect and how to support her during labour and beyond.
Frequently Asked Questions
My girlfriend or partner is pregnant — what’s my role?
Listen, be supportive, and avoid making quick assumptions. Encourage open conversation and help her access support.
What’s some quick, practical advice?
Be present, help with practical needs, and show empathy. Offer to attend appointments and gather information together.
What should I avoid doing?
Don’t pressure or withdraw. Avoid ultimatums or judgments.
How can I help right now?
Encourage your partner to reach out to House of Grace for Pregnancy Options Support. You’re both welcome to come together or separately.
If the Pregnancy Ends in Abortion
Some women feel relief after an abortion; others may struggle emotionally in the days or weeks that follow.
You can help by:
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Listening without trying to “fix” her feelings
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Offering comfort and presence
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Helping with daily tasks or planning relaxing activities
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Encouraging her to reach out for After Abortion Support if she wants to talk to someone beyond you
Many women appreciate the chance to process with a neutral, trained listener rather than feeling they’re burdening their partner.
After Abortion Partner Support
​If your partner has had an abortion, it’s normal for both of you to experience emotions such as grief, sadness, or confusion.
At House of Grace, we provide a safe, confidential, non-judgmental space where you can explore your feelings and receive compassionate care.
Support is free and available in person or virtually.
You both matter. You’re not alone.
Reach out to learn more about After Abortion Support for partner
In-Person Support in Duncan, BC
We offer in-person After Abortion Support at our Duncan office. Meeting face-to-face can sometimes feel more natural when sharing deep and challenging thoughts and emotions.
In-person sessions may be especially helpful if you don’t have access to a private space for virtual meetings or are concerned about privacy during an online appointment.
Online Support Across BC
If you’re outside the Cowichan Valley, we also offer virtual After Abortion Support.
You can connect with us from the comfort of your own home — no matter where you live in British Columbia. Our virtual services are open to anyone seeking support.
If you live outside BC, we can help connect you with a trusted after-abortion support program in your area.
Reach Out Today!
Whether your abortion experience was recent or long ago, healing is possible. You don’t have to face this alone — we are here to walk with you.
In-Person: Duncan, BC
Online: Available across BC
Contact Us: (250) 737-4337
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